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  • The thoughts and ideas expressed here are not necessarily those of Oceans Of Mercy (the mission we are with) so please don't hold them accountable for the ideas or thoughts expressed...

Colossians 1:9

  • Alex -
    I'm having a hard time, nothing major, just lingering anxiety, crying jags... on how close we came to a repeat of loss. It was too close to my husbands anniversary. So I'm keeping close to THE WORD, praying...I know it will get easier with time. Guess I still had some stuff buried to work thru."
  • Namir -
    A Palestinian born again christian on the run from the Palestinian Authority. Pray that he and his family are granted a visa to escape Israel so that they can be together.
  • Jami -
    Her dad (Don) was diagnosed with bladder cancer. He goes in this month for another followup test to make sure there is no sign of cancer or tumors. His colonoscopy came out great. Please pray for his Dr. visit that they wouldn't find anything else.
  • Mandy-
    We need financial prayer. My hubby is in the RV industy & it is in the toilet right now. We are doing what we can to stay afloat, but it looks grim. We're in the process of selling the house just to get enough $ to make it through the winter. No debt...just struggling to buy necessities. Not sure where we'll end up?
  • Samantha -
    Zoe, her seven year old daughter has been diagnosed with scoliosis, a heart murmur, and most recently Mitral Valve Prolapse, and Patent Ductus Ateriosus. Please pray for continued healing as she has undergone surgery and is now determined on having a "normal" school year.
  • Heidi -
    She is battling all kinds of crazy...her diagnosis being: lacunar stroke; onset diabetes/ high cholesterol/ migraines. Please pray for all of that.
  • Anne -
    Direction, wisdom and timing as she writes her book.
  • Bethlehem House -
    Lynn- the intrum house mom...Please pray for strength and wisdom as she leads the girls toward the Cross.
  • Jackie and Chuck -
    Health and comfort as they grow old together. (She battles COPD, emphysema and array of other health issues.)

Wild in Africa

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    A day in South Africa. So fabulous. Come and hang out. We will take you on an adventure.

Beach Mama

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    Our fabulous day at the beach.

Cape Town

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    Our trip to the coast.

Township

  • Holding
    Meet some people and see some townships....

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November 2007

November 29, 2007

and go!

So happy. We are on our way today. In 4 hours we leave for home. 8 months ago we started this journey not knowing where it was going to take us and now we are headed back. Back for Christmas, back for family, back for rest and re-direction, back for friends, back for prayer and new backing, back for supplies, back for separation, back for familiar, back for love. We are headed back and at the end of our 7 week sabbatical, I know that we will be ready and eager to head back here to South Africa, to our HOME.

November 28, 2007

This is a true story...we meet ladies like this EVERYDAY.

By Barry Moody                                                                Tue Nov 27,  7:19 PM ET NAIROBI (Reuters) - Skinny and gap-toothed, her nose smudged with black dust, grandmother Kanotu Mumo sorts charcoal into small pots for sale on the stoop of her slum hut.

"AIDS granny" in Kibera, one of Africa's biggest slums. Like grandmothers all over Africa, they have been left to fend for orphans after their own children and husbands died.                        

Her hut, stacked with sacks of charcoal, measures 10 by 8 feet and is too dark to see more than a few inches (cm) even in the middle of the day.

Somehow she shelters four grandchildren, two great grandchildren and the child of a dead relative, who sleep on mattresses and two beds. There is no toilet or running water.

According to U.N. figures, at least 12 million children in Africa have lost one or both parents because of AIDS. This is 80 percent of all AIDS orphans in the developing world.

The number of orphans in Africa has increased by 50 percent since 1990 while falling in other regions. The United Nations says there will be 53 million by 2010, some 30 percent of them bereaved by AIDS.

The burden of this disaster is borne by extended families, most often grandmothers, who might have otherwise dreamed of returning to their home villages for retirement at the end of a tough life.

Kanotu Mumo moved to Kibera, home to 800,000 people, when her husband died about 25 years ago in eastern Kenya. "I can't remember. It has been so long. When my husband died the relatives threw me out and sold the land."

Unlike many of the grandmothers, doleful and worn down by their fate, Mumo smiles and jokes. She says she cannot remember her age. As she talks, two teenage granddaughters come and go.

Her story is typical of the everyday tragedies of Kibera. Two daughters and a son died of AIDS. Another son was stoned to death by a mob after he was caught stealing. "I am embarrassed to talk about it but it was due to the unemployment."

She lives close to the railway line that runs through the sprawling slum, acting both as a pedestrian thoroughfare and place for traders to lay out shoes and clothes.

She sells her charcoal -- the slum's primary fuel -- for a few shillings profit, after buying from a nearby wholesaler who carries it to her hut.

SCHOOL

Like other grandmothers interviewed by Reuters, Kanotu Mumo comes to the Stara school in Kibera to clean twice a week. Their grandchildren attend the school and are fed from huge vats of steaming maize porridge and beans.

The project, supplied and funded by Dutch charity ChildsLife International, the U.N. World Food Programme and Kenyan aid agency Feed the Children, was started seven years ago by a group of Kibera mothers, after friends died and left them to look after their children.

The school on the edge of Kibera houses more than 500 lively children, 70 percent of them orphans, dressed in green uniforms.

More than 30 of the children are HIV positive and receive anti-retrovirals from a nearby clinic in the slum, supplied against vouchers from the school.

The small size of the premises means classes are noisy and overcrowded, with up to 80 children of mixed ages. The school, headed by dynamic Kibera resident Josephine Mumo, has proven skilful in raising support.

Singer Harry Belafonte, Barbara Bush, mother of President George W. Bush, and actress Drew Barrymore have been backers.

Without their grandmothers and projects such as Stara, many more orphans in Kibera and elsewhere would end up as glue-sniffing street children or child prostitutes.

Josephine Mumo says that when the mothers started the school, they brought in children who had been raped as they went door-to-door begging for food.

SURVIVE FOR THE CHILDREN

Many of the grandmothers are themselves weakened by HIV as well as old age, making it even harder for them to feed their charges.

Peris Owuor, 50, is a Kibera grandmother looking after seven grandchildren. "Sometimes my body does not feel good and I cannot go to look for food," she said.

Owuor, whose husband died of AIDS in 1998, washes clothes to make money, at 150 Kenya shillings ($2.25) a day, and tries to help feed her three surviving children who have no jobs.

"But when my body is not good I just have to stay at home."

Another grandmother, Antonina Mujenge, also HIV positive, cares for five of her own children and four grandchildren. She also sells charcoal.

"I try to look after them like other children but it is very difficult because of my low income. Sometimes there is not enough for all of them," she said.

"My main aim is to stay around long enough to make sure the kids can get an education and find jobs," said Mujenge, who has lived in Kibera for 20 years.

She would love to return to her village in western Kenya. "But I am an outcast at home. They say I can infect others. I cannot go back."

Grace Atema, 65, looks after three grandchildren and her daughter, mother of two of them. She washes clothes twice a week to raise money.

"I put everything I get towards the children. But I worry what would happen if I died. How would they survive?" she said.

                                                                                                                                                                                   

Kenyan woman Kanotu Mumo (L) speaks during an interview with Reuters at Kibera slums in Nairobi, Kenya, Nov. 8, 2007. (Antony Njuguna/Reuters) 

November 26, 2007

The things I hear Daniel say....

We were talking about pigs for some reason and....

me: i wonder what everyones facination with pigs is all about
Daniel: i dunno. i think it has to do with the fact that they kind of reflect life
me: what do you mean?
Daniel: they are all small and fuzzy and cute in the beginning then it grows into a big hairy monster that nobody knows what to do with.
me: i don't get it.
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Christmas Cards!!

Today we received our very first Christmas card. I am so thankful. I was just wondering the other day if I would receive any being that we are here and we are there...I love love love Christmas cards, and I was selfishly hoping I would get some in the mail. So today, from my beloved friend, Alita (from Starbucks) came love with news of her family and life in general. Catch-up from the year past and blessings for a joyous new year. Thank you Alita for making my trip to the mail box extra special today!!

Is this really happening?

The other day I read this: "How you treat the creation reflects how you feel about the Creator" and since, I have been totally convicted. By the way I treat people close to me, by the way I treat people at a distance...by the way I love. Everyone. How I treat everyone. I saw it as a direct reflection of my relationship with God. So then I started seeing Christ in people. Believers, people far from God...Daniel, the hookers, the kids. Everyone. Then today I read this news story (below) and my heart sank even farther. I wonder what is happening and if people are really this sick. I see things all around here, and it really isn't the way the media says it is. The way I thought AFRICA was when we first came is so different then what I think 8 months later. This HIV/AIDS "crisis" we are in is so much more then drugs and getting people out of "their situation". It is all about LOVE. It has always been about love and it will always be about love. I am convinced of that.

                        RIYADH, Saudi Arabia - Saudi Arabia's Justice Ministry said a girl who it sentenced to jail time and flogging after being gang raped by seven men was an adulteress who invited the attack because at the time she was partially dressed in a parked car with her lover.The statement from the ministry, carried by the Saudi Press Agency late Saturday, defended the court's decision to sentence the girl to six months in prison and 200 lashes for violating the country's strict sex segregation laws.

It also sought to ease international outrage over the case by discrediting the woman who had told reporters earlier that she was meeting a friend from high school when the attack occurred.

"The Saudi justice minister expressed his regret about the media reports over the role of the women in this case which put out false information and wrongly defended her," the statement said. "The charged girl is a married woman who confessed to having an affair with the man she was caught with."

Known only as the "Girl from Qatif," the 19-year-old rape victim said she was a newlywed who was meeting a high school friend in his car to retrieve a picture of herself from him when the attack occurred in the eastern city of Qatif. While in a car with him, two men got into the vehicle and drove them to a secluded area where others waited, and then she and her companion were both raped.

The ministry's latest account of the incident alleges that the woman and her lover met in his car for a tryst "in a dark place where they stayed for a while."

"Then they were spotted by the other defendants as the woman was in an indecent condition as she had tossed away her clothes, then the assault occurred on her and the man," the statement added.

It said the sentence of prison and lashes, handed down last week following an appeal, was legal and followed the "the book of God and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad," noting that she had "confessed to doing what God has forbidden."

The woman and her husband were "convinced of the verdict and agreed to it," it said.

The girl was initially sentenced to prison and 90 lashes for being alone with a man not related to her. When her lawyer, Abdul Rahman al-Lahem, appealed the sentence, he was removed from the case, his license was suspended and the penalty was doubled to 200 lashes.

The increase in sentence received heavy coverage in the international media and prompted expressions of astonishment from the U.S. government. Canada called it "barbaric."

Under Saudi Arabia's strict interpretation of Islamic Sharia law, women are not allowed in public in the company of men other than their male relatives. Also, women in Saudi Arabia are often sentenced to flogging and even death for adultery and other crimes.

The seven men convicted of gang raping the woman were given prison sentences of two to nine years. The initial sentences for the men ranged from 10 months to five years in prison.

The case has sparked rare domestic debate about Saudi Arabia's legal system, which gives judges wide discretion in sentencing criminals, rules of evidence are shaky and sometimes no lawyers are present.

Justice in Saudi Arabia is administered by a system of religious courts and judges appointed by the king on the recommendation of the Supreme Judicial Council. Those courts and judges have complete discretion to set sentences, except in cases where Sharia outlines a punishment, such as capital crimes.

That means that no two judges would likely hand down the same verdict for similar crimes. A rapist, for instance, could receive anywhere from a light or no sentence to death, depending on the judge's discretion.

November 25, 2007

4,3,2,1

100_2969We are finishing up our Christmas shopping and packing, paying bills for the time we are gone and getting things together. I am so ready for home. I am ready for my family and our stocking tradition. The familiar of home. The smells of home. Hannah and Kacey (my niece and nephew) asking to snuggle-bug, the incredible way Mom makes snow ice cream taste so yummy with hot chocolate. Being so comfortable with my sister and laughing at the stupid stuff. I miss my friends and drinking Starbucks 'till our stomachs hurt...not because we don't have self-control, but because we don't want to leave one another. But the more I miss home, (and am thrilled to come home and see and spend real time with friends and family), the more I am already missing my family here. These kids who have captured my heart. 100_2652 100_2929

November 23, 2007

And then it was four.

He asked. I said yes. And it was 4 years today. This morning as we were talking, working out our schedules  for the day, it hit me. Oh my gosh...it is our anniversary. Dang. So Daniel, my Daniel and I forgot what day it was and we have turned into that couple that forgets our anniversary.100_2917

She (and he) gets around.

We are almost home. Woo Hoo. When we get there we will be spending half our time with Daniel's family and friends in Wichita and then double back and spend the other half in Kansas City to spend time with my family and friends there. The dilemma is that we have no transportation. In that time we are scheduled to visit several churches to raise prayer and support for living in South Africa. So what we need is a car to travel. (We are leery of borrowing a car because we don't have insurance any more...have I ever told you about that one time I hit the guy in the wheel chair??). So one of the churches we are visiting is in Texas, so we have to figure out how to drive there as well. If any of you have any hook ups in the rental car industry...please let me know. Thanks!!!

November 22, 2007

Jackie

I am thankful for her. She is past her "due date" and I am so thankful that I get to see her again. She, if you might remember was told she only had a few months and that was now 3 years ago. So you see...in 7 days...I will be making a bee line to my friend Jackie's house. There are so many things I am thankful for this Thanksgiving in Africa. Even though I have had to explain what Thanksgiving is a thousand times already.100_0536

November 20, 2007

Dan, Dan, the snake killing Man

I love that I married a tough guy!!Dsc03013

Thoughts I stole

  • "What I want is to be known as someone who stood for something." - Leonardo Dicaprio
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